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12-28-2005, 11:47 AM
Well, the xbox's are my husband's he is trying to sell.
(if you are wondering why I am selling read below)
My husband came home from Iraq about 4 months ago. Since he has been home he has been distant (which I expected), angry (ALL THE TIME), secretive, frivolous with spending and lazy.
Some of this I expected from him having just been in a war zone for a year and from being away from his family for a year. But I DIDN'T expect for him to be so hateful. He calls me names, yells at me in front of the baby (we have a nine month old), gets the HUGEST attitude if I ask him to do something, and does NOTHING to help out around the house.
I need HELP. We went to a marriage counselor 3 times and now he wont go. The marriage counselor suggested that he go to individual counseling, he refuses. I am in individual of my own and my therapist insists that we get back into marriage counseling. I can't MAKE him go. He has become an irritable, lazy, mean poor excuse for a man and I am TIRED. I spent an entire year without him. I managed the bills, kept up the apartment, had a baby all by myself for a year. I did just fine and I was totally happy. Now I feel like I am alone again only I now have someone in the house that I have to tiptoe around and clean up after. I want to kill him. I hate his guts. I am miserable with him. I am taking 3 classes over the next 8 weeks. I don't want to leave him, I want HIM to leave so that I can focus on school and take care of my son in a calm happy environment. I don't know what to do. I don't have any family out here they are all in OH. We have been married for 4 years on the 19th. He is military and we currently live in WA but our "state of residence" is technically OH. We got married in Vegas (if that matters). Would any one be interested in buying any of these? I am trying to sell them before he returns from out of town Saturday.
I wont be taking anything less than $250. I have a couple of pictures a friend of mine took for me. As well as a few that rodger had already.
(if you are wondering why I am selling read below)
My husband came home from Iraq about 4 months ago. Since he has been home he has been distant (which I expected), angry (ALL THE TIME), secretive, frivolous with spending and lazy.
Some of this I expected from him having just been in a war zone for a year and from being away from his family for a year. But I DIDN'T expect for him to be so hateful. He calls me names, yells at me in front of the baby (we have a nine month old), gets the HUGEST attitude if I ask him to do something, and does NOTHING to help out around the house.
I need HELP. We went to a marriage counselor 3 times and now he wont go. The marriage counselor suggested that he go to individual counseling, he refuses. I am in individual of my own and my therapist insists that we get back into marriage counseling. I can't MAKE him go. He has become an irritable, lazy, mean poor excuse for a man and I am TIRED. I spent an entire year without him. I managed the bills, kept up the apartment, had a baby all by myself for a year. I did just fine and I was totally happy. Now I feel like I am alone again only I now have someone in the house that I have to tiptoe around and clean up after. I want to kill him. I hate his guts. I am miserable with him. I am taking 3 classes over the next 8 weeks. I don't want to leave him, I want HIM to leave so that I can focus on school and take care of my son in a calm happy environment. I don't know what to do. I don't have any family out here they are all in OH. We have been married for 4 years on the 19th. He is military and we currently live in WA but our "state of residence" is technically OH. We got married in Vegas (if that matters). Would any one be interested in buying any of these? I am trying to sell them before he returns from out of town Saturday.
I wont be taking anything less than $250. I have a couple of pictures a friend of mine took for me. As well as a few that rodger had already.